This past year alone I’ve heard news of several of my favorite local bands break up. Break up of any kind hurts. It makes you feel wrong, and/or wronged. When it happens it’s hard to make yourself understand that “it” simply wasn’t meant to be. And it’s hard to not sigh, bitch and moan about how it was a BIG mistake.
But shit happens. And mistakes are a big part of it. That doesn’t mean you’re wrong for making plans around ‘it’. The ‘it’ that was it, you wanted to believe.
We all learn to move on. Pick ourselves up. Turn the page. And we, somewhat, learn to be cool regarding making mistakes. But we seldom thank mistakes for being a great teacher.